The Zebra Question
I asked the zebra,
Are you black with white stripes?
Or white with black stripes?
And the zebra asked me,
Are you good with bad habits?
Or are you bad with good habits?
Are you noisy with quiet times?
Or quiet with noisy times?
Are you happy with some sad days?
Or are you sad with some happy days?Are you neat with some sloppy ways?
Or are you sloppy with some neat ways?
And on and on and on and on
And on and on he went.
I’ll never ask a zebra
About stripes
Again.
There is Always the Other Side
A Mother was reading a magazine and her cute little daughter every now and then distracted her. To keep her busy, she tore one page on which was printed the map of the world. She tore it into pieces and asked her to go to her room and put them together to make the map again.
She was sure her daughter would take a lot more time and probably whole of day to get it done. But the little one came back within minutes with perfect map.
When she asked how she could do it so quickly, she said, "Oh Mom, there is a man's face on the other side of the paper. I made the face perfect to get the map right." she ran outside to play leaving the mother surprised.
Moral :
Perhaps there is always the other side to whatever you experience in this world. This story indirectly teaches a lesson. That is, whenever we come across a challenge or a puzzling situation, look at the other side...and will be surprised to see an easy way to tackle the problem or an acute difficulty.
Idioms
1. Hit the books
Meaning:
Study very hard.
If you hit the books, you start to study hard seriously with determination.
Example:
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I’m going to hit the books this weekend to prepare for the final exam.
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If you want to get an A in this class, you should start hitting the books right now.
2. A hand-me-downa
Meaning:
A shirt, dress, pants, etc. that an older person (especially your older brother or sister) in your family has given to you because it is too small or he/she doesn’t want to wear it anymore.
A hand-me-down is a piece of clothing that has been worn by someone (especially your older brother/sister) and given to you.
Example:
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When I was a child, I always had to wear my sister’s hand-me-downs.
3. Give someone a hand
Meaning:
Help someone when he/she is doing something difficult.
If you give a person a hand, you give him/her assistance because he/she is trying to do something difficult.
Example:
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Let me give you a hand with your baggage.
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Don’t worry about your garden. Ten young people will come over today and give you a hand.
4. Be fishy
Meaning:
Seem not to be true / honest; be suspicioius
If a situation or something/someone is fishy, you mean it seems someone is not completely honest or someething is not true.
Example:
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I was offered an unbelievably good business opportunity, but there was something fishy about it.
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A lot of strange people are coming in and out of the house recently. There’s something fishy going on.
5. Be (as) cool as a cucumber
Meaning:
very calm and relaxed even in a difficult situation
If someone is (as) cool as a cucumber, he/she is very relaxed and/or calm when you expect him/her to be nervous or upset.
Example:
He had very bad news last night, but he came to the office as cool as a cucumber this morning as if nothing had happened.
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She was cool as a cucumber even right after she was fired.
6. Be broke
Meaning:
Without money
If you are broke, you don’t have money.
Example:
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“Do you want to go to the movies tonight?” “I can’t go. I’m broke. Tomorrow is payday.”
7. Stay up
Meaning:
Not go to bed at a time when most people are in bed or when you would be normally in bed.
If you stay up, you go to bed later than usual.
Example:
The students stayed up late last night to prepare for the final exam.
We stayed up all night telling our stories.
8. A bad apple
Meaning:
A (morally) bad person who makes a whole group bad.
A bad apple is someone who has a bad effect on a whole group or system.
People also say, “One bad/rotten apple spoils the (whole) bushel/barrel.”
Example:
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The corruption in the government started with a bad apple, a high official two years ago. Now the whole system is corrupt.
9. Hit the ceiling / Hit the roof
Meaning:
Become extremely angry.
If you hit the ceiling / roof, you get very angry.
Example:
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Dad’ll hit the ceiling when I tell him I broke his camera.
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Nancy hit the roof when she found out someone drove her car without her permission and wrecked it.
10. Be tongue-tied
Meaning:
Unable to speak.
If you are tongue-tied, you cannot speak and express yourself easily because you are shy, nervous, or embarrassed.
Example:
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James talks a lot with friends, but often gets tongue-tied in important interviews.
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He met a very beautiful woman at the party and was tongue-tied.
wooden bowl
A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and a four-year-old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together nightly at the dinner table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating rather difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass often milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. "We must do something about grandfather", said the son. I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor. So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner at the dinner table. Since grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. Sometimes when the family glanced in grandfather's direction, he had a tear in his eye as he ate alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food. The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "what are you making?" Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and mama to eat your food from when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled and went back to work. The words so struck the parents that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word has spoken, both knew what must be done. That evening the husband took grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with his family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled , or the tablecloth soiled.
exams and stress
People can face exams at any age. This article provides advice about how to prepare for exams, how to recognize if stress is getting out of hand, and what to do about it.
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Where do you begin to search for “did you find someone?”.
It’s like searching for the pink elephant in the wild.
I have said to myself that this person’s first lesson to you will be to keep in hope and never give up,
but now it feels more like a need and I feel lonely.
Alone.
I thought I searched for love, but instead I am in search of being loved, being wanted.
I believe that there is a person somewhere.
I just have to be open and kind.
For love itself shall come to you.
You cannot go to love or even bring love to you.
Try not to think about lonelyness, but rather hope and ask (gently).
And now we wait…
Life is Painful, Suffering Is Optional
The greatest pain
in life is not to die, but to be ignored.
To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn't care at all.
To have someone you care so about so much throw a party...
and not tell you about it.
When your favorite person on earth neglects to invite you to his graduation.
To have people think that you don't care.
The greatest pain in life, is not to die, but to be forgotten.
To be left in the dust after another's great achievement.
To never get a call from a friend, just saying "hi".
When you show someone your innermost thoughts and they laugh in your face.
For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift
your spirits.
When it seems like the only person who cares about you, is you.
Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better?
Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in
need?
Each of us has a part to play in this great show we call life.
Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our friends we love them.
If you do not care about your friends you will not be punished.
You will simply be ignored... forgotten... as you have done to others.
This poem was written by a young girl who committed suicide.
Perhaps if the people surrounding her had shown a little more love, and had paid more attention to her, her death could have been prevented.
Remember that when going through life, you can't judge a sad, lonely, or suicidal person by their facial expression. You need to get to know each person you come in contact with, cherish your friendship with them, and show them that you care.
When my love swears that she is made of truth
When my love swears that she is made of truth,
I do believe her though I know she lies,
That she might think me some untutor'd youth,
Unlearned in the world's false subtleties.
Thus vainly thinking that she thinks me young,
Although she knows my days are past the best,
Simply I credit her false-speaking tongue:
On both sides thus is simple truth suppressed:
But wherefore says she not she is unjust?
And wherefore say not I that I am old?
O! love's best habit is in seeming trust,
And age in love, loves not to have years told:
Therefore I lie with her, and she with me,
And in our faults by lies we flatter'd be.
William Shakespeare









































